Most people realize there’s abuse, when they’re being hit, cut, slapped, etc. What about the more subtle forms of abuse, though? Do you recognize it as abuse when your activities are restricted, when you have to account for every minute you’re gone, when it’s made difficult for you to see your friends and family, when … Read More
Almost two years ago, I wrote a 4 part series on domestic violence. I wish I could say that the violence has diminished since then, but it hasn’t. I want to run that series again, so that hopefully others who need the information will have it. Victims of domestic violence can be women or men, … Read More
This entry is written to the person who recognizes and admits to living in a violent home. I’m assuming that if you’ve read through the first 3 parts, you have broken through your denials and justifications by now. Are you ready for a better life? Are you tired of living in fear, waiting for the … Read More
Denial is a pretty strong defense against the difficult truths that we aren’t yet ready to see. As long as we cling to our fantasy images of painful realities, nothing will change! In this entry, I want to ask some questions designed to break through the denial of abuse. (This is Part 3. If you … Read More
If you’re in an abusive relationship, or know someone who is, it’s important to know about the cycle of violence. (To read “When Love Brings Pain –Part 1,” please click here to get an overview of abuse, and how to keep yourself, or someone you love, safe from domestic violence.) All too often, people who … Read More
Loving and being loved by someone should add an extra dimension of happiness to our lives. Love should never be painful! All too often, though, that is just what takes place. No one deserves to be abused. It doesn’t matter whether it’s physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, or financial. Abuse is never OK in any form! … Read More
