Quote of the Week

October 10, 2013connections, intimacy, kindness, love, quote of the week

“When you begin to touch your heart, or let your heart be touched, you begin to discover that it’s bottomless, that it doesn’t have any resolution, that this heart is huge, vast, and limitless.  You begin to discover how much warmth and gentleness is there, as well as how much space.”     Pema Chodron

Making Assumptions Is Almost Guaranteed to Create Problems!

August 25, 2013communication problems, couple's therapy, intimacy, marital therapy, relationship issues

There’s one commonality in many of the couples that I’ve worked with through the years, and that’s the tendency to make assumptions.  I’ve heard so many say, “I just assumed …”  Many times their joint patterns of making assumptions have created a lot of problems for them, and for their relationships! An important part of … Read More